Well for anyone still interested the router turned up and 1 hour later i beat the s*** out of it for being the cheapest pile of c**p ever..... (my own fault for being a cheap ass)
Anyway there`s a piece of software called WINGATE which is a type of firewall and you can set the 2 connections up on 2 nic cards and it will power balance for you, however if you do an online speed test it will show only 20megs and not 40, this is due to the fact that only one ip address will be regestered for the test.
The software will rotate the connections so if i use DAP pro and dl a big file i can hit about 3.7megs per second which is really nice. Now i just need to wait till VM unviel the 50meg connection and see if the pc an handle @10megs per second being written to it whilst still doing other things at the same time. (hmmm wd raptor might be in order i think)
Well there you go, it just shows what looking around the net can do for you instead of just sitting in one place expecting everyone to do all the work for you.
If anyone wants to try this i have the tutorial for wingate to set it up the right way for this type of connection.
Just pm me if you wan it.....
And once again thanks for the help from you all......